Saturday, February 26, 2011

Chasing Love: Love chasers

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So, I was just thinking about how I believe I have already been fortunate enough to find "Mr. Right," but I let him go.  And, as I look around at all my friends who swear they are with their "Mr. and Mrs Rights," I can't help but note that it came with some pain and humiliation.

I remember being with friends on their journeys for their "Mr. Right."  I'd witnessed everything from the initial meetings to the first signs of love. I'd watch them become captivated by a lover then swear, he was the one.  In their efforts to prove their love to their mindless mate, I have been witness to many forms of their chasing, or the downright stalking of their prey. 

There were friends who just simply wouldn't give up on the one they swear was meant for them. Sometimes it even meant toughing out a broken heart, while waiting for their mate to tire of the "sexcapapade" world. And though I never doubted my friends feelings for their mates, I've always questioned their tactics. Until now, as I continue to miss, and regret the fact that I let my "once in a lifetime chance," get away.  Oh, and as for my friends who were relentless in their chasing, they're still with theirs.

So, all of this has me wondering, was I being too "proper" in letting my one and only go, standing firm on my morals, or Should I have resorted to the tactics of my friends?  What do you think?   When it comes to love how do you land your perfect mate?

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